Call Yourself Out

Going Back to Basics

Hey friend,

I owe you an apology.

It's been three weeks since you heard from me. Three weeks.

And if I'm being honest?

I've been out here winging life, got caught up, and kept telling myself "I'll send it next week."

Then next week came. And I said the same thing.

Sound familiar?

So today, I woke up and said: "Enough. I'm sending this out today."

Not because I have it all figured out. But because I need this reminder just as much as you do.

The truth still remains: the leveling up journey is never linear.

You're going to drift. You're going to fall off.

You're going to have weeks where you're on fire and weeks where you completely lose the plot.

That's not failure. That's life.

But here's where most people mess up:

They drift off and don’t catch themselves.

Let me be real here…

When you're not doing what you said you'd do, when you're not making progress, when you're stuck in the same place week after week — you know it.

Deep down, you know.

You might tell yourself it's because you're busy. Because things came up. Because life got hectic.

And sure, maybe that's part of it.

But if we're being brutally honest? You're just not doing the work.

You're scrolling instead of reading.

You're sleeping in instead of getting up. You're letting your day happen to you instead of structuring it.

And the worst part? You're convincing yourself it's okay.

"I'll start Monday."

"Next week will be better."

"Once things settle down, I'll get back on track."

Stop it.

You're lying to yourself. And the only person you're hurting is you.

Because while you're making excuses, time is passing. Weeks are turning into months. Months are turning into years.

And you're still in the same place, wondering why nothing's changing.

So here's what I need you to do: Call yourself out on your bullshit.

Not to beat yourself up. But to snap yourself out of the delusion that you're "trying" when you're really just coasting.

You don't need a new strategy. You don't need more motivation. You don't need perfect circumstances.

You just need to go back to the basics.

The Basics (When You Drift, This Is Where You Return)

When you drift off… when things get chaotic, when you lose momentum, you don't need some complicated new system.

You need to restart. Go back to basics.

And the basics are simple. Annoyingly simple.

Here's what they are for me:

1. Wake Up Early

Not 10 AM. Not "whenever you feel rested."

Early.

5 AM. 6 AM. Whatever early means for you.

Because the way you start your day sets the tone for everything else.

When you wake up early, you win the morning. And when you win the morning, you win the day.

When you sleep in? You're already behind. You're reacting. You're playing catch-up.

So wake up early. No excuses.

2. No Doom Scrolling

This one's hard, I know.

But you have to stop lying to yourself that scrolling for an hour first thing in the morning is "quick catching up on what you missed."

It's not. It's numbing. It's avoiding. It's wasting the most valuable part of your day.

Your first hour should not belong to algorithms. It should belong to you.

So put the phone down. Don't even touch it for the first hour.

Your brain will thank you.

3. Read for 30 Minutes to 1 Hour Daily

Not scroll. Not skim headlines. Not watch YouTube summaries.

Read.

Books. Articles. Things that make you think.

Because reading is how you grow. It's how you learn. It's how you expose yourself to ideas beyond your current reality.

30 minutes minimum. 1 hour if you're serious.

Every single day.

Non-negotiable.

4. Structure Your Day

This is the one most of us skip. And it's the one that makes all the difference.

and i struggle with this too…almost everytime.

You can wake up early, avoid your phone, and read — but if you don't structure your day, you'll still drift.

Because without structure, your day will structure itself. And it won't choose what's best for you.

So before you go to bed, write down your top 3 priorities for tomorrow.

Not 10 things. Not a massive to-do list.

Three things.

The three things that, if you did them, would make tomorrow a win.

Then wake up and do those first.

Everything else is secondary.

This Is How You Get Back on Track

I get it.

Life gets chaotic. Things come up. You drift off.

But here's what separates people who actually level up from people who stay stuck:

The people who level up don't stay drifted.

They catch themselves. They call themselves out. They go back to basics.

They don't wait for Monday. They don't wait for the new year. They don't wait for motivation to strike.

They just restart. Today.

So here's my challenge to you this week:

Pick one of these basics. Just one.

Wake up early. Stop doom scrolling. Read daily. Structure your day.

Lock it in. No matter what.

Not perfectly. Just consistently.

Because the basics aren't sexy. They're not exciting. They don't make for good content.

But they work.

And when you drift, and you will…this is where you return.

Not to some complicated new system. Not to a productivity hack. Not to a motivational video.

To the basics.

Because the basics are what got you moving in the first place.

And they're what will get you moving again.

So stop lying to yourself. Call out your own BS. And get back to it.

Starting today.

I'm writing this for you. But I'm also writing it for me. Because I drifted these past three weeks. And today, I'm going back to basics. If you're with me, reply and tell me which basic you're locking in this week. Let's hold each other accountable.

With you, always,
Uthman